This week’s spotlight
is shining on Rochon and Jasmine Hall. Rochon is an excellent and skilled
photographer as well as immensely inclined musically as a producer and rapper. Jasmine, while juggling talents such as
modeling and writing poetry, maintains her gift of inspiring many through her
awesome daily motivational messages shared via Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter
(she is also in the process of writing two books that I will keep readers
posted on). I had the pleasure of knowing the Hall’s during their tenure at
Tuskegee University and the couple embodies such a positive loving spirit not
only to themselves but to others as well.
Before the interview,
I wanted to examine the importance of black love in our communities and the gap
between complacency in NO TITLES and the union of marriage. I believe the usage
of the “no title” excuse is a cover-up for not being hurt by possible unmet
expectations. Your parents didn’t have a healthy relationship which in turns
changes your view on how your relationship should go. Despite being a witness
to an unhealthy relationship I still feel that I am worthy of happiness and a
solid commitment. Black love is a beautiful thing. To meet that one person who
accepts all of you and supports, understands, values, connects with, and
undeniably respects you is quite amazing. Black people are very capable of
acquiring and maintaining healthy relationships and regardless of what may be
said by young black adults, we all want that. The recent passing of the late,
great Ruby Dee is a sad occasion, but she can now finally rest with her husband
Mr. Ossie Davis. They acknowledged that whether in this
life or the next they will always be together. I watched them in movies and in
interviews as a child, and enjoyed seeing them embracing life as one grand
unit. Remember: Our Black IS Beautiful. I mean that in every sense of the
phrase. Our minds, our love, our men, our women, our souls, our future, as well
as our culture and heritage.
Hi Rochon and Jasmine, thank you for taking the time to talk
with me on behalf of Urban Echelon, I am very excited to display more of our young
movers and shakers who are bringing the REAL to our respective environments.
- Where is home?
Jasmine: Huntsville, Alabama
- Rochon how long have you been a photographer? (as a hobby and professional)
I’ve been shooting for about 5 years now. It started off as
a hobby to make some extra money, then turned out to be something I love doing.
I think I love it so much because, it is a way for me to turn my crazy visions
into art that I can look back on and be like “dope”.
- Jasmine when did you begin writing poetry and expressing yourself through “love messages” as I call them?
I began writing when I was probably in the fourth grade. I kept
several journals during my childhood which also encouraged me to write at such
a young age. I dealt with a lot growing up emotionally and physically and
because I was a child no one had time to sit and listen to me; therefore, I
used writing as an outlet not knowing that it would soon become a passion of
mine. I began expressing myself through “love messages” when I was in high
school. I dated a guy who I thought I would spend the rest of my life with and
when we broke up, it triggered an emotion that caused me to write again.
- Jasmine do you believe society today has a clear view of what they want, who they are, and where they are going (spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, etc.)?
I believe that there are a few in today’s society that are
very in tuned with who they are becoming and what they “think” they want. Where
someone is going spiritually, in my opinion, cannot be determined by the human
eye because everyone’s spiritual journey is different and belongs to just them.
Our society wants to produce shallow, egotistical individuals, but a lot of
people are going against the grain. I’ve noticed that some people would like to
find themselves and grow spiritually, but they find it impossible because of
the way the world is now. So no, I don’t believe society has a clear view of
what they want, who they are, and where they’re going, but I do believe that
certain individuals do.
- Rochon, if you had the ability to be invisible for one day with your camera what scenes would you capture?
I would love to just capture individuals behind closed
doors, and not like that. Old people, young people, children etc. Many people
today are afraid to express certain emotions outside of home for the fear of
being looked at or judged. Moments in life don’t last forever, which is where I
come in.
- Three words to describe your spouse. (both you guys respond for this)
Jasmine: Soft spoken, brave, and optimistic (described by
Rochon)
Rochon: Dedicated, compassionate and focused (described by
Jasmine)
- What are your opinions on the status of relationships (friendship, dating, and marriage) in the young black community?
Jasmine: My opinion on the status of relationships in the
young Black community today is that we/re confused. Relationships were once
valued in the past because different forms of pain were present for example,
Civil Rights, wars (which separated families), and fewer opportunities. We
believe that if we’re given more freedom then more will be accomplished but
that is a lie. Now that we have more opportunities as African Americans, we
take them for granted. The music that we listen to promotes promiscuous
behavior. Now that we have our own shows on television, which too promotes the
wrong sexual behavior, it teaches us that it’s okay to tear families apart. So
many of us are still taking advantage of the government when we now have access
to education or even owning our own businesses. All of this plays an important
role in our foundation for building healthy relationships. We become so
consumed with pleasing others physically that we fail to establish ourselves
and even the people around us. I often times wonder that if we were put into
our great- grandparents shoes, we would not survive a day. We think that we are
strong, especially our women, but we’re weak mentally and emotionally. We, as
women, pride ourselves on being strong single mothers, but will continue to be
with men who we aren’t entitled to. The men pride themselves on being great
fathers by just putting clothes on their children’s backs. I could go on, but
I’ll just say we’re confused. (laughs)
Rochon: A lot of
relationships these days aren’t built on a solid foundation; Trust,
willingness, love, dedication just to name a few. African American
relationships in the past were built on uplifting each other as a whole because
we were working towards a common goal. Now, we all seem to be crabs in a bucket
fighting to get to the top. I’m old fashion so I believe the principals of the
bible led you in the right direction, but it seems that people are following society’s
advice rather than following the blueprint that has been laid out for you
already. How to dress, who to date, how to look, what to eat, where to go are
all examples of the way society has tapped into our brains. We have to start
thinking for our self. It’s okay if your marriage is in a crisis, because it
can be fixed and working like no other. It’s okay if the guy/girl you’re dating
isn’t a perfect 10, as long as they make you happy and treat you right. Your
friend did you wrong? Who cares! Talk about it and make up. We give up way too
easy in our relationships, that’s the problem. If you want something bad enough
you have to WORK FOR IT!
- Rochon, what advice would you have for photographers just starting out or those who are interested, but may be nervous in pursuit of their dream? Jasmine what advice would you have for those who are struggling with certain life matters and they think that life cannot progress any further than the level they are currently experiencing?
Rochon: Just get out there and DO it! It doesn’t matter what
your dream is, if you aren’t putting in the work you’ll never reach them. Fake
it till you make it baby… that’s what I did. And I’m still “faking” it till
this day.
Jasmine: If there is someone struggling with something in
life, my advice to them is to remember it’s temporary. Often times we allow a
problem, no matter how big or small, to consume us. Once that problem passes,
we realize it wasn’t as bad as we thought it was. It’s temporary and anything
that is temporary will not last forever. You can be or do ANYTHING. Stop
feeling bad for yourself and acting like the victim. Someone is always going
through so much worse, but they’re living. I grew up in a household where
everyone played the victim so problems were never solved. I was the same way
and I eventually realized that nobody cared because everyone had their own
problems as well. So my advice is to be strong. Don’t do it for anyone, just do
it for yourself and remember that it’s all temporary.
I want to truly thank you guys again for engaging in this
conversation with me and I wish you all many more years of happiness.
| Poem written by Jasmine |
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| ROCHONHALL Photography |
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| ROCHONHALL Photography |
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| ROCHONHALL Photography |
INTERVIEW BY LARAE WALKER FOR URBAN ECHELON MAGAZINE AND BLOGSPOT
















